[Dating 101]

SHOULD YOU SHOW YOUR TRUE COLORS IN THE EARLY STAGE OF DATING?

中文 | English We’d like to thank a volunteer for translating this article from Chinese to English. If you would like to help translating or proofreading our articles, please email blog@2redbeans.com Recently, Amy contacted a 2RedBeans dating consultant about an embarrassing date. After graduating with a PhD in Pharmacology, a classmate introduced a guy who works in the financial industry to her. In order to make a good first impression, she made “active” preparations.

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AFTER THREE DATES, I HAVE REAPED MORE THAN JUST LOVE

中文 | English We’d like to thank Nick Fang for translating this article from Chinese to English and Jason Kwan for proofreading it. If you would like to help translating or proofreading our articles, please email blog@2redbeans.com My name is V. “I am not spending my birthday alone next year”. This was my 29th birthday wish. I had friends planning on getting married, and friends planning on having a second child, whereas I’ve been stuck my head into work all these years.

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I INVESTED SO MUCH INTO YOU. WHY WOULDN’T YOU RESPOND TO MY LOVE

中文 | English Translated by Nick Fang “I invested so much into you. Why wouldn’t you respond to my love?” Just because you are so invested in someone doesn’t always guarantee a good result. Before you two establish a relationship, he/she has no obligation to respond to you with an equal amount of love. Asking such a question simply does more harm than good. When we don’t receive positive feedback for the effort we put into someone, it’s easy to feel out of balance.

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SHOULD AN OFFICIAL ANNOUNCEMENT BE MADE WHEN YOU GO EXCLUSIVE?

中文 | English We’d like to thank Nick Fang for translating this article from Chinese to English to spread the science behind love and dating. If you would like to help translating or proofreading our articles, please email blog@2redbeans.com “Official announcement” was a trend started by celebrities and influencers that were adopted quickly by the people in the last few years. Announcing one’s partner on social media while showing off has become a common practice nowadays.

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WHY DO I HAVE A HARD TIME FEELING HIS/HER LOVE?

中文 | English We’d like to thank Nick Fang for translating this article from Chinese to English to spread the science behind love and dating. If you would like to help translating or proofreading our articles, please email blog@2redbeans.com We have been collecting dating feedback from our users and we found that there’s a huge difference when it comes to perception of love. Some people can describe their feelings accurately:

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