中文 | English We’d like to thank Nick Fang for translating this article from Chinese to English to spread the science behind love and dating. If you would like to help translating or proofreading our articles, please email blog@2redbeans.com Today’s story is about Jude and Ann, a magnificent couple. Jude, forty-two, born in Guangzhou. Ann, forty, born in Beijing. There is a world of differences between their personalities. And they weren’t what they expected as an ideal partner either.
中文 | English We’d like to thank Nick Fang for translating this article from Chinese to English to spread the science behind love and dating. If you would like to help translating or proofreading our articles, please email blog@2redbeans.com Recently, We’ve received a message that goes like: “I’ve never dated anyone before. What could I do to start a relationship? 母胎solo, single since birth, refers to people who’ve never dated in their entire life.
中文 | English Translated by Nick Fang When looking for a partner, would you prefer someone with more or less experience? Regarding this question, we started a survey and here are the feedbacks. Some said they would prefer someone with less experience: “those who has been through a lot inevitably become more realistic, weighing out the pros and cons. I want a purer relationship if it means for them to have no experience at all.
Sending a good first message is important if you want to attract the person you approach online or meet in real life. Here are three steps for crafting your first message: 1. Include their name “Hi, Cindy!” or “Good afternoon, Ben!” Addressing them by name will start building rapport immediately and give off a good first impression. Write sincere and meaningful compliments “I love your eyes in the pictures with you smiling.
Have you ever experienced this? Awkward conversations on dates or conversations that never goes deeper? Psychologist Arthur Aron has developed a solution. 36 personal questions that will help you to get to know each other better. Research shows that intimacy between two strangers can be accelerated if both are willing to share personal details. If you want to know more about the 36 Questions, or if you have any other questions about dating or relationships, click here to make an appointment with a professional matchmaker from 2RedBeans!